So…. it seems, according to Hollywood.com that Will and Jada have decided the small ceremony they shared ten years ago was not enough now that they have seen how TomKat did their vow renewal.

You don’t need to make your renewal that public or that flashy, though. Some couples choose to share their vow renewal with close friends and family rather than the production of a large ceremony and reception. It’s a personal choice.

Everyone seems to be renewing vows in Hollywood (although Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock seem to be poster children for too much of a good thing). Some of the couples I have held small ceremonies for planned right away to hold a reception and vow renewal for families later.

With vow renewals, you have options. You can choose to use the same vows you said the first time, mix your original vows with new wording, or create something completely different.

For more ideas, visit my new vow renewal page at TailoredCeremonies.com.